The Illusion of Self

We often believe that our sense of identity and individuality depends on our ability to define ourselves and our place in the world. Yet, the self is ever-changing and multifaceted, and true identity lies beyond the boundaries of the ego. This paradox gives rise to an internal struggle, a conflict between our desire for clarity and our acceptance of the unknown. To resolve this tension, we must cultivate a sense of awareness and acceptance. Awareness is not a mental state, but rather an inner state that allows us to see ourselves and the world around us with clarity and precision. As we let go of our need for self-definition, we may encounter feelings of confusion and disorientation. But these feelings are not enemies to be vanquished; they are guides that highlight the discord between our true self and the external expectations that have misled us. By embracing this confusion as a teacher, we can discover the eternal force within us, a force that is unshakable, unchangeable, and independent of external self-definition. This force is our true essence, our inner being aligned with the natural flow of life. It is the source of our creativity, our passion, and our purpose. Trust in this force, and let it guide you. Daily, remind yourself that your sense of identity and individuality is not contingent on your ability to define yourself. Your sense of identity and individuality is intrinsic, a fundamental part of your being. Embrace this truth, and let the internal struggle dissolve into peace. Be the lovely human you are, with or without self-definition. - Lenfantvivant